goals
setting goals
- Setting achievable goals
- Pick a focus
- Value it
- Be specific
- Make a plan
- Get support
- Set reminders
- Remember your values
- Incorporate into routine
- Reassess incrementally
D.A.R.N.-C.
- D β Desire: How would you like things to change?
- A β Ability: How are you able to make those changes?
- R β Reasons: Downsides of remaining the same and upsides of change
- N β Need: What needs to happen?
- C β Commitment: Stick to your goal
S.M.A.R.T.
- S β Specific
- M β Measurable
- A β Attainable
- R β Realistic
- T β Time-limited
setbacks
information
- It is impossible to return to square one
- Wisdom gained from enduring and overcoming is a gift
- Bad days can become more noticeable and upsetting as you experience more good days
- Setbacks are common because stress and change in your life are constant
guidelines
- Decipher where things went off course
- Do the next thing in front of you
- Reach out to others
- As setbacks occur, welcome them and hold on until itβs over
- Remember that setbacks are normal
- Challenge your negative thoughts
- Keep a routine
- Be mindful of small pleasures
- Notice your achievements
- Donβt compare yourself to your past
- Breathing and relaxation techniques
- Move back to simpler goals